Some people will bitch no matter what

So, I've explained why I have this anonymous blog. Let me give you just a little more detail. On my other blog, I had mentioned that my husband and I had gone to a concert and that we had purchased a new tv since our's bit the dust. No big deal, right?

Well, to most people. My husband's ex, read it and immediately called him to bitch that we did not need to be spending money on a concert and tv when he was behind on daycare (for my stepdaughter) and child support. Now I have my own ex-husband, so I can completely understand this. If it were, you know, true. My husband pays a little over $100/month in child support because we have joint custody. One week here, one week there. According to our state law, support is reduced some because of that and because of her income and the fact that we also split daycare and pay for insurance. The child support that he was "behind on"? Was for February. That post? Was on March 3rd. He just hadn't given it to her. Same with the daycare. He just hadn't gone by and paid it yet. No big deal, the daycare wasn't upset about it.

She then had the nerve to send me an email asking my how I could write about my ex-husband not paying child support when my husband does the same thing!!

You stupid bitch! For those that don't know, my ex-husband hasn't worked in getting close to 2 years by his own choice. The last time I took him to court (last May) he owed me close to $15,000 in back support and unpaid medical bills. Mostly in back support. Close to $15,000! He currently owes me more than $5,000 in unpaid child support. I'd say that's a bit more than $100.

My situation is 100% different than hers. Her ex is responsible. He works every.single.day. He takes care of his daughter and sees her whenever he can even on the weeks she's not with us. He cares about what's going on with her in pre-school.

My ex? Gets his daughter every other weekend. He doesn't work. Does not provide any money for any thing!!! No money for her school supplies or field trips. He has never asked about her report cards. He doesn't pay shit for child care or carry her on insurance.

Even if my husband did every fucking thing she wanted, she would still be unhappy and bitch. Because she is a miserable person. She's not happy unless she's bitching. She can bitch all she wants, for the most part, my hubby ignores her. But the next time she ever says anything to me like that email, mark my words, I won't ignore it.

A new beginning

This is not my first blog post. Nor is this my first blog. In fact, it's probably my 5th. I have another blog out there that I write on as me. Not anonymous at all. But, I had to make that blog private because some people found it that I did not want reading it and I felt like I had to censor myself and I did. Then, even though I was only posting about things that were not intimate, no inner thoughts and such, someone tried to use that blog to cause problems in my life. I very much wanted to call that someone out on that blog, but she is my husband's ex-wife and is a very vindictive person. No need to cause problems as far as I am concerned.

Plus some of the other people that read that blog also read one that she has and I think it's stupid to start some she said/she said bullshit.

So, with this blog, I will say what I mean and not sugar-coat anything. You may hear about the crazy bitchy things my husband's ex does. You may not. You may read about boring this-is-what-I-did-today crap. You may not.

But, I need an outlet. One where I can be me. I don't need anyone else's approval to think what I think.