Tuesday, March 18, 2008

A new beginning

This is not my first blog post. Nor is this my first blog. In fact, it's probably my 5th. I have another blog out there that I write on as me. Not anonymous at all. But, I had to make that blog private because some people found it that I did not want reading it and I felt like I had to censor myself and I did. Then, even though I was only posting about things that were not intimate, no inner thoughts and such, someone tried to use that blog to cause problems in my life. I very much wanted to call that someone out on that blog, but she is my husband's ex-wife and is a very vindictive person. No need to cause problems as far as I am concerned.

Plus some of the other people that read that blog also read one that she has and I think it's stupid to start some she said/she said bullshit.

So, with this blog, I will say what I mean and not sugar-coat anything. You may hear about the crazy bitchy things my husband's ex does. You may not. You may read about boring this-is-what-I-did-today crap. You may not.

But, I need an outlet. One where I can be me. I don't need anyone else's approval to think what I think.

16 comments:

Ashley said...

Wow, I didn't think things were that bad with y'all. Hope this new blog helps you vent some of that frustration. :)

Sherry said...

Hey good for you and also thanks for inviting me to your blog.
I agree you do need your own space , a place to vent, and without any ex wife causing bull shit etc. Damn why can't people just myob and grow up huh?
Vent away, tell all and you know on here it's FRIENDS only and no one will judge you at all, just "let her rip" !!!!

Anonymous said...

Nope, you don't need anyone's approval. What's sad is that even though you went private in your other blog, you STILL had to censor your words due to some that would run to the ex with your words.

I hope this blog helps you to get out what you need to get out--good, bad, fugly and anything else.

:)

Anonymous said...

I didn't think it was bad with the ex either. You go for it anon.

Angie said...

Thanks for including me. Of course I'm not up to date on what's going on.....so I guess today I will start fresh!!!!

Me said...

I am sure she reads mine too. But I will tell her she is a bitch to her face and YOu KNow this man. I just don't think she has the balls to step to me. I promise though I will hit her if I see her for ALL of us.

Do your damn thing girl, You know we all love you greatly.

CPA Mom said...

wow, thanks for including me!! Your secret is safe with me.

Now of course I'm wondering who reads both of you and is being so high school about the whole thing.

Because, apparently, I'm still in H.S. too. LOL!

Emma in Canada said...

Well, she doesn't read me and I don't read her so any secrets are safe here!

Blue Angel said...

I know just how bad it can get. Been there with the same person just a different situation.
For the love of chocolate! Stop interfering with people's lives!
Ok, I'm better now.I'm always here (or 1200 miles away) for you. Glad to see you moving forward.

random_mommy said...

Can I get a "Team Anonymously Me" T-Shirt?

Happy Working Mom said...

You definitely need a place to let it all out...it's too bad that she made it so you had to do it this way.

You really have to deal with some crazy people, don't you?

:)

Anonymous said...

I'm glad you started this, because I keep forgetting to get a Wordpress account to subscribe to your other one!

"J" said...

It's me and I'm here to stay!!! HE HE HE!!! Thanks for letting me know!!!! =)

Anonymous said...

I love point blank blogs! Tell it like it is! Everyone deserves a right to do this! I'm glad you started a new one!

Anonymous said...

yay for you! I agree that having a place to tell it like it is is very necessary. (hee-hee, "for the love of chocolate," that's funny!)

:-)

Me? I'm just happy to be here.

"J" said...

Okay...
I'm having freaking issues to log in your old blog...I've been coming here to see if you have posted anything and you haven't!!! =(