So, I've explained why I have this anonymous blog. Let me give you just a little more detail. On my other blog, I had mentioned that my husband and I had gone to a concert and that we had purchased a new tv since our's bit the dust. No big deal, right?
Well, to most people. My husband's ex, read it and immediately called him to bitch that we did not need to be spending money on a concert and tv when he was behind on daycare (for my stepdaughter) and child support. Now I have my own ex-husband, so I can completely understand this. If it were, you know, true. My husband pays a little over $100/month in child support because we have joint custody. One week here, one week there. According to our state law, support is reduced some because of that and because of her income and the fact that we also split daycare and pay for insurance. The child support that he was "behind on"? Was for February. That post? Was on March 3rd. He just hadn't given it to her. Same with the daycare. He just hadn't gone by and paid it yet. No big deal, the daycare wasn't upset about it.
She then had the nerve to send me an email asking my how I could write about my ex-husband not paying child support when my husband does the same thing!!
You stupid bitch! For those that don't know, my ex-husband hasn't worked in getting close to 2 years by his own choice. The last time I took him to court (last May) he owed me close to $15,000 in back support and unpaid medical bills. Mostly in back support. Close to $15,000! He currently owes me more than $5,000 in unpaid child support. I'd say that's a bit more than $100.
My situation is 100% different than hers. Her ex is responsible. He works every.single.day. He takes care of his daughter and sees her whenever he can even on the weeks she's not with us. He cares about what's going on with her in pre-school.
My ex? Gets his daughter every other weekend. He doesn't work. Does not provide any money for any thing!!! No money for her school supplies or field trips. He has never asked about her report cards. He doesn't pay shit for child care or carry her on insurance.
Even if my husband did every fucking thing she wanted, she would still be unhappy and bitch. Because she is a miserable person. She's not happy unless she's bitching. She can bitch all she wants, for the most part, my hubby ignores her. But the next time she ever says anything to me like that email, mark my words, I won't ignore it.
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Goodness! I've seen people twist things around on blogs before but never that bad. She is a very sad person. I don't see how you put up with it. I'll be thinking about y'all!
Yeah I don't blame you. I don't think I would have ignored it the first time around! Or better yet, give her something to really bitch about of course it would have nothing to with the kids. Crazy, I do know a couple people who are like this and are NEVER happy!! THey are impossible to deal with!
you should hook her up with your ex. sounds like they deserve each other. ha!
Wow! I didn't realize she was being that bad. I hope she settles down.
It's all jealousy. She's jealous that she can't buy stuff so, she looks for a reason to start crap with you guys. Tell her to lump it; that when Chris owes tens of thousands of dollars in unpaid support, THEN she'll have the right to bitch.
The bitch.
Okay I would totally want to slap her. I mean take a look around and realize how lucky you are for like one freaking second.
It annoys the snot out of me when people complain about things that they have no right to be annoyed about.
Harumph.
OH MY GOSH....
I'm going to deal with the same ***SHIT*** with Mr. "S" ex!!! She is EVIL!!!! Just down right mean! She uses his little girl against him to get her way!!! Per the divorce decree we should get her for 42 days this summer and she is saying that is way to long for her to come stay with us! She is saying she doesn't want to come to Texas and blah, blah, blah!!! His little girl ALWAYS had sooooooooooooooo much FUN when she is with us and when her mom calls she never even wants to talk to her!!! I will forward you an email I just sent to CPA Mom...I want you to read what we found on the internet...how she CAN NOT keep her from us!!! HE HE HE HE!!!!
Mr. "S" pays his Child Support too and does everything he should do as a father! We send her gifts for Valentine's Day, Halloween, Easter...we send her b-day gifts we went to see her for Christmas! It's just hard because we are here in Texas and so was the EX "B" but when her and Mr. "S" split up she moved back to Ohio to be by her "MOMMY"...UGH!!! I just want to flip out sometimes!!! FOR REAL!!!! CPA MOM KNOWS!!! I've been telling her allllllllllllllllllllllllll about it!
Sorry I just wrote a book...
It's a sore subject with me...HE HE HE!
Wow....that was a long comment! =)
PS - We need to toast to bitter "BITCH AZZ" ex's!!!!
HA HA HA
They are just jealous of what they don't have anymore!!!!
No wonder you created another blog site, I so don't blame you. She is jealous and she so needs to get a life and leave yours alone.
She is the EX which means EXit from your former life, get a new one and mind her own freaking business. Dang people like that drive me nuts!!!!
I'm sorry you are having to deal with this. I second what some of the others have said, she sounds jealous. I am glad we don't have ex's to contend with. Inlaws are bad enough....
She's totally out of line. If your hubby had been chronically behind and had not paid in months? That would be a different matter, but if the money just hadn't exchanged hands? That's another ballpark. What a bitch.
well you know my history with her specifically and you know my history with my late husband's ex so you know I can relate.
Seriously wish we could hurt them as badly as they hurt our husbands.
Hang in there, you have people who understand and care about you.
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